Posts tagged mindfulness
Small things matter

Might taking one extra flight of stairs a day transform you into a Hugh Jackman-like specimen? Depending on your starting point, this may seem unreasonable. Consider the snowball, small in stature at birth. Add momentum and it can grow extraordinarily large. Perhaps this is an unhelpful analogy, but it paints a clear picture of our philosophy in health and wellness. Small things matter.

The same idea applies to changing the state of the earth. Moving to California and the brush fires close enough to see and smell have shifted my attention to what is happening on the planet. As a family we have always been earth conscious, but every now and again I find myself using an extra plastic bag or doing an extra small load of laundry - because it is convenient at the moment. Because I want to wear a specific shirt the next day. I know we can do better.

Our home, the earth, is in dire straits. We have not been good caretakers of it - and it is melting. The detrimental impacts of what we have done and continue to do are nearing irreversible levels. There is a tremendous task at hand and if we don’t fully embrace it, generations in the not very distant future, will bear the brunt of our lack of responsibility. Mindfully choosing the often less comfortable option in our everyday lives in order to collectively make change happen is imperative.

Tobias Jackson, via smithsonianmag.com

Tobias Jackson, via smithsonianmag.com

Here are some easy, actionable, environmentally mindful steps you can take today.

  1. Go paperless. Paperless billing is almost always an option with credit cards, utility companies and banks, swap paper invites for e-vites, and keep digital notes on your phone or computer. Do what you can - I personally enjoy the act of writing on paper, especially when journaling. In this case I find a happy compromise and consciously choose eco-friendly notebooks and journals made from recycled paper. Here is a pretty one made from stone and resin.

  2. Use reusable shopping bags. Easy to fold up and keep in your purse or car, there is no excuse not to always have one or two handy. I use these for groceries and these for carrying home wet clothes and towels while leaving sand behind after a day at the beach.

  3. Use reusable produce bags. Instead of using single use plastic bags for produce, I found these reusable mesh bags at Wholefoods. You can wash, strain and store your veggies in them too. Amazon carries them as well.

  4. Shop in bulk and bring your own containers. Again, steer away from single use plastic. For bulk items such as coffee, grains and nuts, try these.

  5. Carry around your own straws and utensils. Plastic straws are banned in the state of California and we often get paper straws with our drinks. I personally find them user unfriendly, quickly turning into a soggy mess. Instead, I carry around glass or stainless steel straws. Lately I’ve been seeing silicone and bamboo ones as well. This kit has everything you need, including chopsticks.

  6. Use cloth napkins and reusable paper towels. They are much prettier anyway. Etsy has some beautiful napkin options. I have these in several colors.

  7. Look for recycled paper products in the bathroom. I grew up on Charmin and softness is a priority. While not quite up to Charmin comfort levels, the company Who Gives a Crap is what we have been using and are pretty happy. They have a subscription based model, make their toilet paper from bamboo or recycled paper and help build toilets in underprivileged communities.

  8. Use refillable glass containers for soap, shampoo and conditioner. I’ve been buying some beauty products such as shampoo, conditioner and lotion in bulk and using Mason jars to keep them. You can turn any Mason jar into a dispenser with these lids. Would you prefer a little color in your soap dispensers to enhance your bathroom decor? Or does a bit of foam make hand washing more fun for the children of the house? Options abound. I bring the jars to the store with me and replace the normal lids with the dispensing ones when I get home.

    I have founds some lovely organic skin and hair care products, many from local, small batch artisans. While not easily accessible in many parts of the country (yet), doing a search for local zero-waste stores will send you off in the right direction. This is a good place to start.

  9. Buy cleaning products that are not harmful to the environment. Have a look at the Environmental Working Group (EWG)’s list of healthy cleaning products. Would taking it one step further interest you? Make your own cleaners out of ingredients you likely already have at home - salt, lemon, baking soda, distilled white vinegar, Castille soap, hydrogen peroxide, and essential oils.

    Here is a two-minute recipe for the all-purpose cleaner I use. Mix all ingredients in a 24 ounce spray bottle and shake.

  10. Use paper, glass or stainless steel over plastic for food storage whenever possible. The problem lies not only in the harm plastic does to flora and fauna, but also in the harm it can do to human health. Plastic leaches chemicals into our food. Nonetheless, this is where I run into the most trouble. Plastic wrap is difficult to let go of. Ziplock and freezer bags are hard to replace. As often as I can, I am choosing silicone bags, silicone stretch lids, fabric bowl covers and beeswax wraps (they smell nice too).

  11. Eat local. Why? The carbon footprint of food grown locally is reduced as local food does not need to travel far. It is a great way to support your community, is fresher and tastes better as well. Ask questions at your local farmers’ markets and support the ones with ethical, sustainable practices.

  12. Source/eat/cook food consciously. Whether you are a carnivore or a vegetarian, it is important to know where and how your food was grown. Discussions around the environmental impact of eating meat and fish often make headlines, but what about the cultivation and harvesting of grains and vegetables? Fertilizer production relies heavily on natural gas. In addition, nitrous oxide gas released when it is degraded in the soil. Over 100 million tons of fertilizer used globally each year to support agricultural production.

    While sustaining ourselves and our families through hunting and gathering is not an option for most of us, learning to eat nose to tail and cooking with scraps is. Get creative with carrot tops, broccoli stems, and ginger and citrus peels. Learn to store produce properly so that it lasts longer. Make soups, stews and broths out of bones and leftover bits of vegetables. (If you would like a consultation with me on this, I teach workshops on how to get the most nutrients out of vegetables, proper food storage and cooking with scraps).

  13. Make your own whenever possible. It takes 10 minutes or less to make milk out of nuts, seeds or coconut and nut butters. Here is a yummy and super simple recipe for strawberry hemp milk to get you started. Home made yogurt, dairy or otherwise, is more delicious than you can imagine and also easy and not as time consuming as you may think.

  14. Do not buy bottled water. Invest in a water filtration system instead. We use a reverse osmosis system by AquaTru and bring a water bottle wherever we go.

  15. Walk or bike, bus or carpool. Here is where multitasking would be a great idea. Walking or biking as a means of transportation promotes sustainability and can serve as a bonus exercise session. While taking public transportation and carpooling won’t do much for your physical wellbeing, they can be opportunities to connect with others in the community, reading a book, meditating or even napping (if you are not sitting in the drivers seat, that is).

  16. Do not buy junk clothes or junk items you’ll end up throwing out in a few months. Invest in high quality clothing and shoes that will last longer. While it is nice having a few pieces that are on trend, I find the old, well made classics in my closet are what end up being worn more frequently. Look for sustainable fabrics and earth conscious manufacturers and designers. Natural materials like linen, cotton, silk and wool are more energy efficient to produce than synthetic fabrics such as polyester and don’t leach microplastics into the water when washing.

    In terms of junk items, one of the most wasteful things I have encountered are the gift bags my daughter brings home from birthday parties. They are often filled with candy and small plastic useless items, two things my daughter (and I) could live without. Think about what you buy your kids (and their friends). Do they really need that plastic figurine, glow in the dark bouncy ball and an extra set of travel jacks?

  17. Repurpose, reuse, recycle, donate.

  18. Wash clothes in cold water. Cold water uses up less energy than hot. If you live in a sunny place, consider hang-drying. There is nothing like freshness and brightness of sun-dried clothing.

  19. Be an example. Bring an extra travel mug for a friend when meeting for coffee, or share your favorite sustainable clothing brands and bulk food stores with friends and neighbors.

  20. Hold yourself accountable.

While all of these things may look small on their own, multiplied, they matter. In this, I am confident.



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Do your thoughts matter?
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"What you think, you become.
What you feel, you attract.
What you imagine, you create.”

― Gautama Buddha

Our view of the world is determined for the most part, by our perception of it and our world attitude (how we relate to experiences and outlook on life) in turn, largely impacts health, both psychological AND physical.  In terms of turning health around and truly "deep health" evolving into the best version of ourselves; that thriving, growing, learning, full of vitality and overall happy human of our dreams; a host of different aspects must come together synergistically.  We've touched on many of these aspects in the past - movement, nutrition, and sleep.  What about the mind?  Without a supporting mindset, it's not likely any of the efforts put towards moving, eating and sleeping will make a marked difference for long.  

So what the heck are we thinking these days?  Turns out, way too many stress inducing thoughts.  Fueled by television and social media and the impending FOMO (fear of missing out) we've come to live in a time of less than optimal thinking patterns.  The representations of life in media are often far beyond any grasp of reality, and while we may intellectually realize this, the resulting feelings are of disappointment and disconnection.   Coupled with overwhelming stress, relentlessly busy schedules, and a lack of mindfulness, it is important to not only become aware of negative, energy zapping thought patterns, but also to have the tools to turn them around.  


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What are some negative, energy zapping mindsets to be aware of:

1. Perfection or failure, nothing in between.  For example:  You didn't get the job you were hoping for, therefore you will become homeless and starve to death.

2. Personally attaching to outcomes.  For example:  You didn't get the job you were hoping for, therefore you are worthless.  Part of this is also comparing your constructed reality to the truth.  Example:  I should have done [insert action], then I would have gotten the job.  "Should" can be a very dangerous word!

3. Ruminating on negativity which leads to feeling helpless, powerless and stuck.  This often leads to depression, lack of confidence and trust that things will work themselves out.

4. Trying to think of very possible scenario to avoid failure and again, becoming stuck.  


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A healthy mindset is a muscle that requires training, just like your glutes and biceps.  Here are some ways to cultivate one.  

1. When you notice yourself creeping down that negative rabbit hole, ask yourself, "What's the worst that can happen"?  Usually the worst that can happen is not so bad.

2. Focus on the "details in the fabric".  If we pay attention to the subtle details in life, we'll see that they are perfectly coordinated.  Take a glass of wine (or a cup of coffee), for example.  The subtle nuances are what transform a decent glass of wine into something superb.  Recognizing the wildflowers popping up between the slats of concrete, the sunlight peeking through the clouds just so,or the touch of a loved one help minimize the impact of the seemingly unfortunate life experience.

3. Let go of assuming we know the future.  We often judge our experiences from the "fortune teller" point of view.  The truth is we have no clue of what the future holds or why things happen the way they do in the long run.  Fortunately is a kids book that really nails the message.  With a broader lens, we see that things work themselves out just the way they are meant to.


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Here are some healthy mindset exercises:

1. Mindfulness Meditation:  There are several good apps out there to help get you started.  (Contact us if you'd like some recommendations).  You can also start out pretty easily unassisted.  Take 5 minutes out of your day at anytime that works best for you. Sit upright and comfortably in a chair, cushion or floor, close your eyes and pay attention to your breath going in and out of your body.  Some people find it easier to say to themselves "inhale" and "exhale" as they do so.  As this becomes routine in your life, this sense of mindfulness will carry over to the rest of your life and in all you do.  

2. Gratitude Practice:  Studies show that maintaining a gratitude practice, has shown to lower levels of anxiety and depression, and increase optimism and overall sense of wellbeing.  All it takes is 2 minutes in the morning to quickly jot down 3 things you are grateful for.  Keep a journal by your bedside dedicated to this to help make this into a habit.  

3. Breathing Techniques:  Like meditation, certain breathing techniques can help create space between you and the negative situation you may be experiencing and help activate the healing/calming effect of the parasympathetic nervous system.  One of our favorites is 4-7-8 breathing.  Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 7, exhale for 8.

4. Determine Your Triggers (and create a pre-game plan):  Think about circumstances, environments, people, and even foods that have triggered negative thinking in the past.  Short of avoiding them (which is easiest to do with food), make a plan for when you DO have to be in those "toxic" situations.  Your pre-game could look like this:  Schedule in an extra meditation session to help broaden your outlook.  Then, determine your default negative thought patterns and write them down on a piece of paper.  Next to those, write down how you'd like to respond to them.  Keep that piece of paper with you in case you need a reminder of that plan while in the midst of the trigger situation.

5. Take a break:  A change in scenery can do wonders.  Take a walk (preferably in nature) or a movement break, engage in a mindless activity or take a nap.

6. Limit your time on devices in general and especially social media.


June is gratitude month for our family.  We are expressing gratitude outwardly to one person every day of the month in person, via email, text, old fashioned letter, gift, etc.  No rules, except that it is to be done daily and should be specific (rather then "thanks for being you").  Want to join us?  


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